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Finding Joy in the Little Things
The Joy of Nostalgia
Remember when happiness was a Ring Pop or a Saturday morning cartoon, or going to see Lost Boys in the theater (which I am currently doing as this is posting)? Joy didn’t have to be complicated, and it still doesn’t.

Traci H.
Sep 212 min read


Did I Forget How to Adult, or is it Just Gen X Brain?
You know that moment where you open a browser tab, log in, and then just sit there staring at the screen like, “Wait… why am I here?” That’s me. Daily. Sometimes I even rope my son into the game — “What was I doing again?” His favorite response: “Existing?”
And don’t even get me started on my reading glasses. The full panic when I can’t find them… only to realize they’re right where they belong — on top of my head.

Traci H.
Sep 73 min read


Health Hangover: Dealing With the Side Effects of Aging (And Finding the Funny in It All)
Welcome to 45 and beyond, where body parts pop like bubble wrap, your memory plays hide and seek, and you suddenly care way too much about fiber. This week’s theme, Health Hangover, is our lovingly sarcastic nod to the very real experience of dealing with health changes as we age.

Survival Fun Guide
Jul 262 min read


Becoming Me: Because Having a Midlife Crisis Deserves its own workbook
Becoming Me: Because Having a Midlife Crisis Deserves its own workbook
When I started re-imagining what Survival Fun Guide could be, Becoming Me was the very first workbook I started building. I was in the middle of trying to summon my inner goddess—rising from the ashes, pressure-formed diamond, phoenix in mom jeans... pick your metaphor. I’d just come out of a five-plus year depression and was still waiting for the breakdown I deserved. The years leading up to this were, i

Traci H.
Jul 192 min read


We the Fractured - A not-so-traditional 4th of July poem
A modern Fourth of July poem about unity, frustration, and hope — written for the tired hearts still believing in the “United” part of the USA.

Survival Fun Guide
Jul 42 min read


The Gen X Starter Kit I Wish I Had When I thought I was losing myself
The Gen X Survival Starter Kit.
It’s not a fix-all. It’s not pretending to be. But it is a lifeline—a bundle of printable tools

Survival Fun Guide
Jun 181 min read


Learning How to "Adult" in Middle Age: Figuring It All Out (Again)
Remember when we were kids, and we thought adults had everything figured out? Joke’s on us. Here we are, in middle age, and somehow, we’re still trying to make sense of it all.
The kids are grown (or mostly). Our parents might be gone or needing more from us. Our bodies are changing in ways we never saw coming (seriously, why does my back hurt from sleeping?). And suddenly, we’re left wondering:

Survival Fun Guide
Jun 114 min read


The Gen X Guide to Creating a F*CK IT List: Take Control, Ditch the BS, and Live Life on Your Terms
We’ve spent our lives being responsible—showing up for work, taking care of family, doing what’s expected.

Survival Fun Guide
May 213 min read


The Gen X Guide to Bucket Lists: Start Small, Dream Big, and Actually Do the Things!
If you’ve ever thought, One day, I’ll do that…, but “one day” keeps getting pushed back, this post is for you.

Survival Fun Guide
May 143 min read


Gen X and Anxiety: How to Deal, Overcome, and Realizing it's OK to Ask for Help
As Gen Xers, we were raised with the “just deal with it” mindset. Anxiety? Stress? Burnout? You push through. You suck it up. You don’t talk

Survival Fun Guide
Apr 305 min read


Middle Age for Gen X Men: The Trials, Tribulations, and Rocking This Time
Ah, middle age. One minute, you’re blasting Nirvana in your car, feeling like a rebel without a cause. The next, your knee pops when you sta

Survival Fun Guide
Apr 234 min read


Menopause: The Unknown Truth (and How to Actually Enjoy It)
Menopause. It’s like puberty in reverse, but with fewer boy bands and way more hot flashes. If you’re going through it, you know—

Survival Fun Guide
Apr 164 min read


Dating in Middle Age – Gen X Style: Where Mix-tapes Meet Dating Apps
Ah, dating in middle age. It’s like trying to program a VCR after decades of streaming—you kind of remember how it works, but things have de

Survival Fun Guide
Apr 94 min read


The 10 Key Early Signs of Diabetes: What You Need to Know
Diabetes is a chronic condition that affects millions worldwide. Detecting its early signs can make a significant difference in managing the

Survival Fun Guide
Apr 24 min read


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